Exceptional Parent - February 2010 - (Page 56) Who Gets To Be An Advocate? By Carla K. Binswanger advocate (ad’ve-kat) v. –cated, –cating. To recommend. –n. (ad’ve-kit, -kat’). 1. One who supports or defends a cause. 2. One who pleads on behalf of another. — Webster’s Dictionary In my personal experience alone, I can count a dozen individuals with widely differing knowledge and expertise—all of whom have all acted as advocates for our son: the speech therapist who has helped us draft IEP goals; the child psychologist who helps us choose our battles with the school; the behavioral therapist who attends IEP meetings with us; the mom I met at the playground last year who has helped me understand the politics of our school district. Each of them, in their own way, is a special education advocate. But not one of them has a business card that says so. Does it matter? That depends who you ask. In the tiny universe of my son’s special education needs, we were lucky enough never to have needed a more “official” advocate – someone, for example, who was trained by one of the many Parent Training and Information Centers across the country, to help parents understand their rights under state and federal law, help them navigate the maze of special In the dictionary, there are just two definitions for the word advocate. But in the world of special needs parenting, the number of definitions runs into the hundreds. A GOOD ADVOCATE: IS WELL TRAINED AND KNOWS THE LAW • Ask what kind of training the advocate has received. When? From what organization(s)? How much experience does he/she have? • Consider asking the advocate specific questions about special education laws and regulations. Does the advocate give clear explanations? Finding the right advocate for your family means asking the right questions. Try to interview at least three advocates before hiring one. UNDERSTANDS SCHOOLS • Discuss what the advocate knows about teaching methods. Ask the advocate to explain how to measure your child’s progress in school, and to show how this information can be helpful in developing the IEP. • Find out how the advocate plans to obtain positive results for your child, while maintaining a productive working relationship with your child’s school. TAKES TIME TO KNOW YOUR CHILD • If possible, arrange for the advocate to meet and spend time with your child. Your child’s education must be individualized to meet his unique needs; an advocate should get to know your child as an individual. • Make sure the advocate understand the facts of your child’s situation. If you would like the advocate to see your child’s school records, the school will require you to sign a release form. EMPOWERS YOU • Find out how the advocate will try to educate and empower you to become a better advocate for your child.• Find out when the advocate is available, and how much time he or she will be able to spend with you. Is the advocate willing to attend meetings at your child’s school? UNDERSTANDS DISABILITIES • Find out what the advocate knows about your child’s specific disability. • Ask if the advocate has experience with other children who have the same type of disability, and consider if that is important to you in obtaining an advocate. ACTS PROFESSIONALLY • Ask the advocate to explain how he or she was able to work out a solution with and for other families in the past. • Consider asking for references from the advocate’s previous clients. • Consider drawing up a written agreement of what the advocate will do for you. • If the advocate charges a fee, make sure you know what the advocate’s fee and/or the retainer amount will be. Agree to these specifics up front and in writing. • Decide when or if the advocate can speak to the school without your permission. • Ask that the advocate return all materials when you are finished working together. • It’s important to know that there is no formal certification or licensing process for advocates. Most advocates are not trained as lawyers. A well-trained advocate will help you know when you need advice from a lawyer. SOURCE: A Parent’s Guide to Selecting a Special Education Advocate in Massachusetts, by The Federation for Children with Special Needs (www.fcsn.org). 56 February 2010 • EP MAGAZINE/www.eparent.com http://www.fcsn.org http://www.eparent.com Table of Contents for the Digital Edition of Exceptional Parent - February 2010 Exceptional Parent - February 2010 Contents Ancora Imparo New Products Further Reading Movie Review Organizational Spotlight What's Happening Insight on Federal Policy. This Month's Focus: Section 504 Search & Respond The Feeding of Great Children: The Impact of Nutrition on Learning Jump with Jill - High-Energy "Rockstar Nutritionist" Jill Jayne Gets Kids Moving - And Eating Right From Diagnosis, to Life Saving Therapy, to Hollywood: The Journey of John Crowley Research Frontiers: Understanding Science, Unlocking Potential Talking Transition - An Interview with An Expert SpecialCare: Getting and Staying Organized - The Effort Pays Off in Many Ways What You Eat Can Make a Difference The Positive Impact of Specialized Diet Food Intervention: How Do I Get Started? American Academy of Developmental Medicine and Dentistry (AADMD) Who Gets to Be an Advocate? 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